I'm on a 4mbps+ connection, and your site took about 8 seconds to load. I would say that your host doesn't have good enough servers, or has too many users on a server. You could contact them to see if they're having issues with php / mysql, but I'd put my money on a slow server.

So you don't think its anything else, like extra scripts running or something bogging down the mysql or anything right?

You could try it without the flash, but the delay wasn't in my computer loading the flash, it was waiting for the server to respond to my request.

Oh, I forgot. Next time you ask for support, make sure you link to us. We don't normally help people who don't have the b2evolution button.

ok, sorry about that. Will do. Appreciate the input.