You are in the right file.

What you have to change is :

<?php $Item->feedback_link( 'comments' ) // Link to comments ?>

Change it to

<?php $Item->feedback_link('comments',"there "," for me","is not yet any kiss","is already 1 lover","are %d kisses")// Link to comments ?>

or something you want....

feedback_link() 
Template function: Displays link to feedback page (under some conditions)

void feedback_link( [ string $type = 'feedbacks' ] , [ string $before = '' ] , [ string $after = '' ] , [ string $zero = '#' ] , [ string $one = '#' ] , [ string $more = '#' ] , [ string $title = '#' ] , [ boolean $use_popup = '#' ] , [ boolean $hideifnone = '#' ] , [ string $mode = '' ] , [ string $blogurl = '' ] ) 
Parameters:
string   $type:  Type of feedback to link to (feedbacks (all)/comments/trackbacks/pingbacks)  
string   $before:  String to display before the link (if comments are to be displayed)  
string   $after:  String to display after the link (if comments are to be displayed)  
string   $zero:  Link text to display when there are 0 comments  
string   $one:  Link text to display when there is 1 comment  
string   $more:  Link text to display when there are >1 comments (include %d for # of comments)  
string   $title:  Link title  
boolean   $use_popup:  true to use a popup windows ('#' to use if comments_popup_windows() is there)  
boolean   $hideifnone:  true to hide if no feedback ('#' for default)  
string   $mode:  'pid' or 'title'  
string   $blogurl:  url to use  

Thanks, for your help I was really little lost lol, now about the bottom part, what exactly does it do?

the bottom part was just the explanation of the code.
If you wanted something else but 'there are kisses for me'.. ;)

That's all the variables you can use to modify the feedback link.

ok I got all this, the last thing is how can I make my blog take up the entire page instead of just half?

honey, this is a CSS/HTML question.. please ask in the [url=http://forums.b2evolution.net/viewforum.php?f=2]appropriate forum[/url] (and give some code examples or a test link).

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Ok how exactyl do I make my comments open in a pop up?

i see all the options up there but I know 0 about php, and I dont know exactly wht parts to add where. please help someone.

Is there any reason you don't (a) start a new thread for a new topic and (b) read the End User Documentation? http://b2evolution.net/man/2004/07/06/pop_up_howto

I dont have the original b2 so I dont know how I am supposed to "copy" something from a file that I dont have. and I just thought it would be easier to just keep all my questions in one threade so I did not have to go look/ create 50 different threads. :)