In your profile there is a checkbox for allowing contact through the message form. You can uncheck that and see if you still have any contact links on your blog. IF you still do you might find that there is a "contact" widget selected in probably the "header" or "menu" container. Blog settings -> pick a blog -> widgets would be the path to check that. The last place it might be is in the footer, which would probably be hard-coded in the skin. So for that you would have to edit whichever file in your skin would contain that code. It changes skin to skin, so I can't say exactly which file you would want to edit.

Thanks again! it was the widget.
-Q